Response

This is out of character but I feel the need to respond to something posted on sheikfreik.com about the Ann Arbor show.

As you might imagine, if you’ve read the thread, I’m referring to Matthias’s posts. Of course, he is totally entitled his opinion and I’m sorry that he wasn’t happy with the set list. However, the “upbeat” music he seems to want to hear generally fails to move me in any way. In fact, the further I move away from “likable” pop music, the happier I am with what I’m doing. I think Rick Moody (Author of “The Ice Storm”) said it best in an article he wrote recently railing against teachers he had in college who wanted his characters to be more sympathetic. He wrote - “to me, likability has always been the hobgoblin of simple minds.”

And maybe that’s the real point - now that I’m finally clear in my own mind about what’s important to me musically, and I’m not so worried about pleasing all the people all the time, I’m able to focus more on those qualities that inspire me. And to leave behind those that don’t.

Take, for example, Will Smith. He has gone on record saying that, with regard to his music, all he wants to do is entertain his audience and make sure they have fun. And I think there is definitely a place in the world for that kind of music. But, as I write this, I really don’t feel like I’m ever going to be that kind of artist. And if I ever was, it was an accident of bad marketing and my own lack of good judgement.

If I look back on all the music that has ever been important to me, it has always evoked emotions that are nuanced and mysterious, perhaps a bit on the somber side but never completely dark or light. To give another example, I’ll take the Beck of “Sea Change” over the Beck of “Guero” any day of the week but I don’t take it personally when he does stuff that is not to my taste.

I believe music has the potential to do some very profound things to people emotionally, spiritually and even ideologically. And the artists I respect all aspire to have that kind of profound effect on their listeners. At the risk of sounding ridiculous, I do too. But I’ll probably never succeed in having that kind of effect without running the risk of alienating certain people. So there it is …

And one last thing for the record. There was one show I played back in ‘97 when I got stoned about 6 hours before I went on stage. My grandmother was at the show and it was possibly the worst 70 minutes of my life. Suffice to say I have never been stoned during a show since then and don’t plan on taking it up in the future.

See you all soon I hope,
DS

127 Responses to “Response”

  1. coolinaz Says:

    Just want to say that you, of course, know that you have to be true to yourself. I have often thought that your music inspires much self awareness. You will never be able to please all, so continue to do what feels right to you and those who appreciate what you do will follow…
    Speaking of, I have tickets to your Tucson show in Sept. Are the meet & greet events something that are accessable/routine? Would love to meet you and chat a minute or two. If anyone can answer this, would really appreciate it.

  2. blackwuzzy Says:

    Oh Duncan,

    I have been up for hours looking at all of those glorious pictures of you and the Guy’s of recent times. How great and wonderful. All I can say to this, without having been to the site…to have read that Post is “Good for You” and “Bravo” while I’m at it. I am so glad that you are your own true self.

    Much love.

  3. tim Says:

    Right on Duncan! I think its awesome that you make music which keeps you excited to make more music. I for one don’t want to see you burn out turning your gift into a burden by trying to create what the market is demanding.

    You are an ARTIST not an ENTERTAINER. That is why you and your work are so inspiring.

    still listening,
    tim

  4. the bets Says:

    First off I have to say I don’t know what I?d do if people tried to compare my work today with stuff I had done years before - I once read an interview of a French photographer Sarah Moon who said she completely rejected all her past work every time she started a new project. I still have strong connections with many of her old photographs as do I with many of your old songs but honestly I’m even more inspired when I see an artist grow and change - So don’t worry Duncan we’re with you all the way.

    Bets

    And I guess this is a clich? but my good friend Shakespeare once said
    “This above all; to thine own self be true”

  5. MMur10k Says:

    Good for you Duncan. So many artists feel they have to sell out to sell records. However for me artists like Tom McRae (totally under-appreciated), Muse, Tom Baxter, The Frames always go their own way. The most profound song of yours was “A Body Goes Down” - obviously not at all commerical. Keep it up.

    Margaret

  6. kandi Says:

    I feel extremely bad you were witness to those remarks, and I admit having concern, but it had nothing to do with the latter…

    …I think this is appropriate timing to say … you have been a very influential person in my life. (in many of our lives) Without you, I would not be the person I am today. You’ve shown me beauty when there was despair, and gave me courage to seek hope, when there was none there… I believe many of us have that connection here. so,

    Please … don’t ever change.

  7. ajs Says:

    Thanks for being brave! I’m sure there have been lots of times where asserting that was much harder. I know it sounds cliche, but it’s just so comforting to have a role model like you out there… it really does mean a lot. If for any reason you’re still worried, disciple, have a cup of tea. :D

  8. Sherrie Says:

    I love your music, just the way it is.

  9. OpenEyes Says:

    “Everything that is made beautiful and fair and lovely is made for the eye of one who sees.”
    Rumi

    “We are the flow; we are the ebb. We are the weavers; we are the web.”
    Shekinah Mountainwater

    “The risk is fearsome: in making your real work you hand the audience the power to deny the understanding you seek.”
    Art & Fear

    “Abracadabra
    the hocus pocus of thieves
    The only wisdom that is real
    in this moment
    is in you”
    Valerie

  10. Watermark Says:

    Duncan,

    The poet Seferis often expressed his fears about the triumph of commercial culture. He told of his nightmare in which the Parthenon was auctioned off to become an advertisement, “every column a gigantic tube of toothpaste.”

    “I am fully conscious that we do not live in a time when the poet can believe that fame awaits him, but in a time of oblivion,” he said. “This doesn’t make me less dedicated to my beliefs, I am more so.”

    When Seferis died in 1971, thousands of young people escorted his coffin, to honor him as a spokesman for freedom. His widow cut off her hair and flung it into his grave.

    You are loved, just love and be loved.

  11. Topaz Says:

    Duncan, there are not enough words to describe what your music has done to/for me…or to explain the feelings it evokes in me…or maybe the words don’t even exist…it’s just an incredible FEELING. I’ll try though…

    When I first found your music a few years back, I was lost in it for months. I couldn’t listen to anything else. It was like this “thing” that had been missing in my life…and it felt SO good to finally find it. No other music had ever felt so right…and I was obsessed. :) Sometimes listening to your music…I can only think to describe it like this…it’s like spiritual orgasms for me(yes, I know that sounds weird but I know of no other way to describe the feeling). And no matter when or where I listen to it, it always feels right.

    There is no other music that affects me the way yours does, and I relate to it like no other. It’s like a form of meditation for me…It heals me, calms me, comforts me, sooths me, inspires me, and transports me when I need to be transported. I’m grateful that you remain yourself…through it all. I’m sure there are many pressures tugging at you to be otherwise. I hope hope HOPE that you don’t ever change…I NEED your music just the way it has been and is…but obviously I don’t need to say this because you’ve made it clear with this post that you won’t be changing for anyone.

    You’re the coolest Duncan. And the fact that you care enough to share these thoughts with us, makes you even cooler. It’s so refreshing to see someone who is passionate about what they do…rather than just going through the motions for all the wrong reasons…unfortunately, there’s not enough of that in this world anymore.

    *hugs to you*… for being you.

    xo,
    Laura

  12. ALackofColor84 Says:

    I couldn’t agree with you more Duncan. Hell if I had it my way and I could choose the set list, it would be all of your more emotional slower songs. I’d just sit and watch you play ‘Sad Stephen’, ‘House Full of Riches’, ‘A Body Goes Down’, ‘Days Go By’, ‘Far Away.’ To be honest, I don’t care what I hear at your concerts. I have yet to hear a song by you that I don’t like. (And that includes the covers you’ve done.) I’d be happy to hear anything at concerts. If it’s slow or upbeat, you’ll never hear me complain. Keep up the great work. I can’t wait for White Limo to come out.

  13. tdurlach Says:

    i think i can sum this up in one sentence.

    just keep doing what you are doing.

  14. blackwuzzy Says:

    Duncan,

    I hope that you know that there is so much Love out there for you and your work. :)

    It is through these Critics that we all become stronger Individuals and Artists in each of our own rights. With that said, move on to all of those new Paths you seek and evolve in your own creative freedom. Without such opinions as Matthias, we could not view ourselves objectively and we would not be able to see the state of the true World we live in. Your Music has enabled us all to be much freer, at peace with ourselves and our lives. I could never thank you enough….you know that Duncan.

    BW XO M

  15. leveriza Says:

    Duncan you are the Best! I LOVE that your work is uniquely different from other musicians…from the music, your chosen arrangements, the lyrics, the list of other talented artists you choose to work with, etc…there is a constant evolution in your body of work…it has a gravitating force or let me just say, there’s a slow seduction that keeps pulling me in(surely am not alone in this)and I never tire out of listening to your music…anyway, am so looking forward to more great music in the future. Cheers just to being the Brave Soul that you are!

    HnK,
    Leveriza

  16. Nate8833 Says:

    Hello Duncan,

    It’s really great that you spend the time to keep in touch with your fans. Of course, that ends up exposing you to people who may not share your views of your own best music. I was at both the Sellersville show as well as the Tin Angel show, and they were both great. The only flaw of these shows, for me, was to hear the obligatory one or two people yelling out, “Barely Breathing!”. Sometimes I wish you wouldn’t oblige them, not that I don’t like the song, but I come to hear what you want to play. I don’t come with any expectations. I just enjoy hearing the songs you take pride in playing, as well as the songs you like to cover. I’m a fan of the person, not just the music, and I’m sure most of your fans here would agree. I’m really looking forward to “White Limousine”, and I’ll always be a fan wherever your musical taste may take you!

    See you in Philly soon!

  17. Kristy Says:

    I must reiterate what’s been said: good for you.

    I write songs myself, and I find tremendous encouragement from your words-they come at a time when I’ve been doubting myself and my purpose a bit, almost wishing that I could write songs that would just make people ‘happy.’ But the truth is, I’m not-and clearly you’re not-trying to write music that just makes people want to party (like you said, that music an be great and has its place, I just can’t write it), but I’m attempting to make music that makes people think, question, or just feel something. You definitely have succeeded at that. Even ‘Barely Breathing,’ which was obviously a massive commercial ‘hit,’ is not contrived, and it’s clear that it came from your heart at that point in time. And I think you’re only getting better. I applaud your quest to grow and find your own voice in an industry that probably put pressure on you to crank out the hits, whatever the hell that means. Clearly the responses above should show you that you are still connecting with people and giving them joy in your own way, just as you find more joy in your music.

    And I must say I totally agree with Nate, above-I got a little annoyed when I heard people yelling out (some very random and completely inappropriate, even) requests at the Grand Rapids show. If people like your music enough to buy a ticket to your show, shouldn’t they trust your artistic judgement enough to just let you decide what you want to play?

    But now I’m just rambling. Anyway, well, rock on. :-) I support you all the way!

  18. siksika Says:

    honestly, i thought a lot of your “happier”, pop-ish songs seemed lacking and somewhat forced. do what inspires you, because even if you fool the entire world into thinking that that music is you, you’ll know. write how you feel, write who you are. this new stuff is some of the best stuff i’ve heard you write. keep it going man, i think you’ve found your place.

  19. The Seeker Says:

    Oh my God~ I got this sick feeling in the pit of my stomach when I started reading the beginning of DS’s post, that he had to respond to something that was being written about something happening at one of the shows. First thing I thought was about the “g-string comment” of the Sellersville show that I made…..so glad to see that was not a problem! I am relieved, right leveriza?! :)

    DS~ You have to answer to no one. Your music, ALL OF IT, is from within you. We totally appreciate having the priviledge of hearing ANYTHING that you play at your shows, and what you feel is to be played is TOTALLY up to you…PERIOD. There is no reason for anyone to feel they have the right to question you concerning what you decide will be in your set list. Please keep the AWESOME music coming, and we cannot wait to see you in Philly in October!

    Sincerely,

    Dave (the other DS)

  20. bennyben Says:

    Duncan, you are one of my favorite musicians along with Jeff Buckley, Neil Finn, and the Kings of Convenience. I was at your Pittsburgh show and it was awesome. My friends, who never saw you play before, commented after the show that is was nice to finally see a musician get so into their music and not just strum some chords and sing some songs wishing they were somewhere else. It’s because you are not some musician sacrificing your talents to make “popular, jumpy” music for mainstream America is the reason I listen to your music. I would love some time just to sit down with you and pick your mind about life simply because I listen to your lyrics and know we have a kindred of spirit. Not that you need me to say this, but keep doing what you do and you’ll be alright.

  21. duncandonut Says:

    Duncan, it pains me that you even need to explain yourself regarding a post. I personally, and I know I speak for a lot of your fans, love you because of your commitment to your truth in who you are and how that reflects in your music. Your music moves me unlike any other artist. And while I like many artists and many different kinds of music I always come back to you as my favorite singer/songwriter. Focus on the people who get you musically and nevermind the rest…we’re the ones who will be behind you every step of the way. Keep doing what you’re doing ’cause it’s powerful stuff.

  22. Jennifer Says:

    I love your music, Duncan, -and most of all, you deserve great recognition of your gifts. What I find appealing about you is how graceful and natural you conjure life, since the day last week when I heard you sing in Ann Arbor. I quite laugh at myself, how I have been playing again in my mind how I should be able to tell you of the effect on me…
    Perhaps Mathias, a loyal musician has found fault and done some little good to be proud of presently. Or, maybe it was good… it’s surely conjoured up great support.
    What I took from your show, is a great living poetry of yours.
    Listening to the EP since, I can give reason to share its excellence, the fresh unfamiliar music, the streams of language, the exquisite sounds, and the true brave thought. I find myself rising on a “high” altogether.
    Well, my trip to Ann Arbor was to be..I’m thankful and filled with pride to have shared the experience.
    Thank you ..and thank you Doug, Jeff, and Jerry.

  23. lmahler Says:

    I’m happy with anything you want to play, you’re at a point in your
    life that you should play music that makes you happy(or sad), we’re
    just here for the great ride. Thanks for the amazing music. Lisa

  24. Roxanne Says:

    I always liked physicist David bohm’s metaphor of the ocean and the wave when describing how the metaphysics of time and fate are dramatically different from the ordinary, linear perception of time.

    He explains that a wave of the sea rises, then falls back into its oceanic depths; each new wave, however, is a fresh expression of the sea while interspersed with elements of the previous wave.

    Considering that we are one with all of nature, I believe this also holds true to our creative expressions. As an artist, nothing is ever really lost, we continue to grow and evolve and create. Some will agree and some will disagree, that is the beauty of perspective and a fundamental part of the creative process.

    Never take anything personally.

    See ya at the Coach House!

    Much Love,
    Roxanne

  25. laguirre Says:

    Our character…is an omen of our destiny, and the more integrity we have and keep, the simpler and nobler that destiny is likely to be.

    George Santayana (1863 - 1952)

  26. mike. Says:

    Hear, hear!

    The Beck example is a good one. I can take or leave most of his stuff, but “Sea Change” is a gorgeous and (dare I say) profound record, for exactly the reasons that you state, but whatever an artist chooses to do next, as long as it is true to his or her own vision, bravo to them, regardless of whether or not it’s to my or anybody else’s taste.

    I personally have only heard the posted b-sides so far, but all I can say is that I’m not worried about the content of the new record (so much as I am worrying about when I’ll be able to actually buy the thing).

  27. vismajor Says:

    Be true to yourself and make the music that pleases you. At the end of the day, it’s *your* name on the music, so make the music - your legacy - say what you want it to say.

    Fans can be fickle, so don’t try to please them. I’ve remained a fan because I like the directions each new album takes us. If you felt like experimenting and releasing an entire album recorded in Klingon, I’d at least give it a listen because I trust your musical judgment; you haven’t let me down yet. :-)

  28. bgreenh Says:

    Dear D,
    I’m with everyone here. Your style and taste in music is your own. I don’t want to go to a concert where the artist only plays their big hits or most widely known songs. I want hear what you WANT me to hear. I’m all the way down with Melancholy music. It makes me happy. You’re music makes me happy. I don’t love every song you’ve made, but I like most of them and that’s why I’m a loyal, devoted fan, who wishes you’d come the hell over to Utah and do a show! Thanks for everything.

  29. monochrome Says:

    A poppy, upbeat song does not do well for serious contemplation and it takes a true poet to weave a song in a manner that places one in another’s shoes so completely. Complaining about a setlist’s lack of happy songs is as fruitful as complaining about lack of happiness in the dailey news. One would think a fan would recognise the music for what it is, not look for something else in it.

    Anyway, can’t wait to hear the new album. Good luck with the release!

    - m -

  30. Vanessa Says:

    Dear Duncan,
    When I spun Phantom Moon in my stereo for the first time, I knew that here was the record I’d always been confident you would eventually make. I was so happy for you that you’d gotten the artistic freedom to make it, and frankly, pretty happy for myself that I had gotten the chance to hear it. Like many others, I was introduced to your music through the songs on your eponymous debut. And while I did enjoy those songs for what they were, what I heard mostly was great artistic potential. Having now passed the decade-mark as a fan of your music, it is a great pleasure to witness you become increasingly freed to express yourself musically. I’m very happy for you that you have the opportunity, and more selfishly, I’m pleased because the more freedom you have to follow your musical inclinations, the better the resulting music tends to be, and your fans benefit from that. I’m a fan of your music because of what you bring to your art that is inimitably and essentially *you* (this came through even when you and Gerry performed Nick Drake’s “Phantom Moon” at BAM), and I’m sure everyone here would agree that we have no interest in seeing you sell that out or water that down so that folks like Matthias can find you more “likable.”

    Anyway, this is just getting rambly, so let me sign off by saying that you have a broad base of loyal and devoted fans who are excited by the prospect of you following your muse to stranger and deeper places.

    You wrote: “I?m finally clear in my own mind about what?s important to me musically, and I?m not so worried about pleasing all the people all the time.” I am so happy for you, that you have achieved this, and want to thank you for sharing this with us, as I am sure it is something that brings a smile to many faces, mine included.

  31. mrchess Says:

    That was Great. Thanks for writing that. Your music has always inspired me. Made me think about things. Again Thanks.

  32. Vanessa Says:

    I wrote above: “Having now passed the decade-mark as a fan of your music, it is a great pleasure to witness you become increasingly freed to express yourself musically. ”

    I just realized it’s been more like nine-odd years, not quite a decade. The point remains, however. :)

  33. wcoca Says:

    I think what your doing is awsome, it makes people like me ( small town singer songwriter) feel like we dont have the pressure of the framework of radio or tv to follow if we want to become something. You music has always moved me and i even thanked you on my first local cd i made 2years ago because you had opened a side of music i had rarley dipped in. Please keep being honest to us and yourself through your music.

  34. guinnevere Says:

    Duncan, I have always respected you as a person and a musician because of the very fact that you will not compromise your artistry for any materialistic or frivolous reasons. I do agree with you that music that is most moving has an emotional,spiritual effect on the listener. This is the effect your music has on me. Sadness is truth, and truth is beauty, and I support you for any artistic direction that you take.

  35. thebutangjedi Says:

    Duncan,

    It has been awhile since I’ve been on this site…. and here I come back to be welcomed with pure gold. An artist that doesn’t want to appeal to mainstream “money making” pop bull@hit… no way, can it be?

    Bring on the dark, sophisticated, and pop unfriendly music!

    I’ll be the first to buy the album, and if you need a place to stay because you are so poor… well, there is a place in good ol san bernaghetto that you can write music from. :D

    I just had the “privilege” of going to see Jack Johnson in concert… well, needless to say… the reader on sheikfreak should definitely go wallow in that music. Yes, Jack is a great artist… but there is a REASON that he is popular - he placates the masses. If I want to bow to this conformity I can gladly turn on my radio.

    By the way… I haven’t heard Duncan on the radio recently *grin* … sorry, but I like that. This means that my non-musically inclined friends won?t be bringing me the one successful single and rubbing it in my face.

    I?d like to say this in closing. Not everyone is happy get over it. Melancholy doesn?t necessarily mean unhappy it just means that you are comfortable with experiencing the full spectrum of emotion. I?ve always enjoyed the melancholy side of Duncan?s music. Why does this sound like a debate about religion? It seems like I?ve heard the same argument against any type of worship that isn?t happy?. Thanks Christian right! *sarcasm*

    Duncan, once again you?ve proven that you are my favorite artist both in music and in actions. Write music that you like and my guess is the true fans (the ones that HATE barely breathing) will love it.

    Sincerely,

    A lover of good music

  36. thebutangjedi Says:

    PS I had to add this… for the record, I HATED Jack Johnson in concert. I honestly wanted to drill out my own ears. However, he is a talented musician, and a well respect individual (both for his political, and social pursuits). I can respect him for this, but I don’t have to like him even in the slightest.

    I just read Mathias’s post and wanted to scream…

  37. Maria Says:

    The previous comments clearly indicate that there are many people who embrace your art.

    You need not defend yourself-so many in your audience not only appreciate and admire your music, but also your integrity.

  38. Allison Says:

    Hey! I like Barely Breathing ; )

    …..but then again I like ALL of Duncan’s misic…Duncan, please don’t change a thing : )

    Allison

  39. blackwuzzy Says:

    Please check EP for my Response.

  40. blackwuzzy Says:

    That’s 10:33pm.

    Goodnight Darling.

  41. Detroit Duncan Fan Says:

    Duncan,

    As a longtime fan who first saw you perform after the release of your first album back in 1996 (at the now defunct Seventh House in Pontiac, MI), I have yet to find an artist with the ability to put into words (and music) all the things I have felt deep within my soul. Your lyrics and your music are achingly beautiful - and I wouldn’t want it any other way! You have such a gift. And such a beautiful spirit you possess, to be concerned about what one person may have said about the show. I’ve never been a fan of pop music, and have long since adjusted to having friends ask me why I like that “sad, depressing, melancholic” music in my collection. I don’t bother explaining, for they are the ones missing out. I’m just happy for my Dell DJ - as I just put in on shuffle to play ALL of your music, along with Peter Murphy, Radiohead, Coldplay, Nick Drake, Daniel Lanois and Massive Attack. I only wish I would have told you this when I met you in Ann Arbor - but I was a bit in awe - and laughed at myself afterwards for not speaking up! Play what’s in your heart, and come back to Detroit soon!

  42. Jason413 Says:

    I have to say something. I don’t normally post on here but reading your post I felt the need to add my own feelings.
    Everytime I’ve seen you live I’ve enjoyed myself immensely. Not everyone show out there has to be about jumping up and down and being upbeat and the like. Sure those are fun but not needed all the time.
    I remember one show where you played with Aimee Mann in NY. I was up front and I was in heaven there. It looked like you were enjoying yourself and that made me enjoy myself even more. I hate people who when they do go to a concert expect certain songs or what-nots. Are artists supposed to read our minds?? A performer like you - a singer, songwriter, something more than a poppy dancer-ish - you can’t go expecting anything other than pure music and enjoyment.
    People are entitled to their opinions and noone should shy away from saying anything. But opinions on what is expected and not delivered are a little fishy to me. Like several people on this post have already said - I am in awe of you. As a nurse your music is one of the few things that can put me in a place in between patients and shifts and level me. Help me to escape more so than any loud head bopping music. So I thank you a million times over and beg you to never change.

    J

  43. russelld Says:

    I am going to put this as simply as I can: Hearing you play anything is a good set. Some of your stuff is very, very mellow and I have to be in a mood to listen to it. But here’s why: because it will inspire a mood different from the one I am currently in. And is that not what good music does?

    You are one of my favorite artists and a post like this reminds me why.

    You are just you and you play for the music. I have immense amounts of respect for you. I will say it again just because it seems to fit here: You totally inspire me in many ways.

    Keep up the amazing work. I know I do not have to actually say that.

    Thanks for being you and for making wonderful music.

    - Russell

  44. Little Willow Says:

    Do what you feel. Write what you feel. Sing what you feel. It’s gotten you this far and it will continue to do so.

    For what it’s worth, I think you are a fantastic songwriter and singer. You are also an entertaining performer. I was fortunate enough to see you in concert two years ago, and I’m not kidding nor am I trying to “kiss-up” when I say it was the most impressive concert I’ve ever attended. I look forward to seeing another live gig this fall.

  45. Razooh Says:

    Ducan…

    Love your music the way it is…looking for to seeing you in Tucson…hopefully you can play wishful thinking. see you in Sept. :)

  46. JacquelineRae Says:

    Duncan…

    i saw you play in Grand Rapids and I thought your whole performance was fantastic. I think you write beautiful music and i am glad you dont worry about pleasing everyone. it makes your music more natural and tru. Keep doin what ur doin….and dont stop coming back to MI :)

  47. WhitePhoenix Says:

    Duncan,

    You are more than just an inspiration in music and writing, but also in every way the aspect of individualism. To me, and most likely, to all of us that have followed you, you being labeled or put in some sort of box, would cause you to lose that wonderful aura that surrounds you, that draws all of us to you, wanting to hear you sing, and wait anxiously for your next album. Nobody is perfect, and no one should have to be. I remember when I saw you at Poughkeepsie, NY at Marist College. I spoke to some folks about it the next day and some were like “He forgot lyrics?” So what. Big deal. You still sounded fantastic, and my girlfriend and I still had a wonderful time around somebody who felt real, with real music, and a real atmosphere about him that let you know you were witnessing something extraordinary. Upbeat is overdone and cliche’ in some ways, and besides, I’m a firm believer in writing what you feel. Should you be expected to feel upbeat all the time? Who is? Keep it up maestro. Wherever the wind blows in your soul, whatever it creates, we will treasure it. Know this.

    Much love and admiration,

    Nick

  48. ladylazarus Says:

    Duncan,

    This is my first time posting…..I’m almost too shy to post. I just have to tell you what an amazing artist you are.

    Your lyrics are so beautiful and poetic. There is so much beauty in the melancholy and sadness. Your lyrics are also socially aware, insightful, and at times ironic.

    Your music that is somber and filled with angst touches me the most. I can’t quite “feel” you in the more upbeat songs like “On A High.” As an artist you have to express what moves you……..then it’s soulful, spiritual, and inspiring.

    You have an amazing resonant voice, are a gifted musician that plays with great feel, and you’re truly a talented poet. Don’t ever change to appeal to the masses. The world needs more artists like you.

    - L

  49. stasis Says:

    Keep it real D, and remember the middle path.

  50. nathanfooism Says:

    i wish there were more artist like you thats all i have to say and i think that sums it all pretty nicely.

    -nathan

  51. brianj Says:

    Duncan -
    First of all, Thank you for letting all of us know your feelings regarding the situation. I’m sure I don’t have to say this but I will anyway. The reason myself and all of the other fans love and care about you is because you are always true to yourself. There are WAY too many artists out there who sell out to the demands and pressure of the business and in the process they loose themselves. That in turn leads them to self disturctive behavior.

    Last weekend in Chicago when I talked to you after the show my comment to you was “You have the most beautiful spirit of anyone I have ever come into contact with.” You are always true to yourself through your music. That is why all of us are so drawn to you.

    In my opinion you are an absolute blessing to all of those you are able to reach. Maybe your music makes some people have to confront issues about themselves that they aren’t happy with and that is why the say negative things.

    Continue to be true to yourself. You are such an inspiration to all of us. I personally Thank You for not succumbing to the demands of other people. That is what makes you such a beautiful person and THE ABSOLUTE ARTIST!

    Peace~
    Brian - Chicago, IL.

  52. wid Says:

    Duncan
    I was at the Ark concert with my teen daughters who had an extra ticket. I didn’t know what to expect, only heard “Barely Breathing” before, as my kids overplayed it when they were discovering “their” music for the first time. I consider myself an open-minded, eclectic listener, and I raised my kids to be that way by dragging them to as many Ark concerts as I could.

    All that background to let you know as a complete newbie I found your set at the Ark to be breathtaking. We’ve had some family discussions about the “pop” songs (i.e. Adam Richman’s and BB) versus some of the “mellower” or more complex songs. As an older listener I find myself much more interested in songs that challenge or expand the listening experience. Pop songs are like fast food, taste good, but don’t necessarily leave you an experience worth remembering or exploring again. My kids however were ecstatic hearing Barely Breathing. You couldn’t not play it, and of course, it is probably the grease the gets you the artistic freedom to do the rest of the things you want, but I found interesting your comment that now you would “Clear your palate” and finish the set with some more of your more complex flavors. Kids always like bland, comfortable. With age we begin to appreciate novelty, juxtaposition and nuance. I’m sure your blog critic will grow at some point. We all do.

    Remember that when Beethoven’s first symphony’s were performed the critics said: “Oh the cacophony! Does he have to have so many notes?”

  53. wessaunders Says:

    I think you overshot that one just a bit. No need to justify your music. I am looking forward to you upcoming release. You are by far the greatest artist I have had the privelage to listen to.

  54. Sliver025 Says:

    Still and always appreciative and listening,

    Jack

  55. ILoveChomsky Says:

    Let me be the sixtieth person to say that I truly admire the way you work to stay true to yourself. I’m grateful you’re in a position where you can afford to experiment with your sound, even if it ends up alienating some fans.

    As for the happy vs. sad music debate, it all depends on the sincerity of the music. There has to be genuine feeling and emotion behind it. I tend to gravitate towards slower, softer, more melancholy music. I absolutely love Elliott Smith, but that does not automatically mean I enjoy the formulaic “sad” music being cranked out by all of these punk-emo bands. When I listen to Elliott’s music, I can feel how much the man suffered, but when I listen to other artists who use similar themes, it can really feel like shallow teen angst. The same goes for “happy” music, even though it is much easier to force.

    Essentially, it makes absolutely no difference to me whether Duncan’s music is generally optimistic or gloomy…so long as there is authentic, genuine sentiment behind it all. Needless to say, I have yet to be disappointed. :)

    Thank you and keep up the great work.

    - Maria

  56. Afterall Says:

    This post really was out of character. Were you stoned when you posted this?

    Just messing around…looking forward to the new album! And get to Minnesota soon please. Play at the Fineline, I’ll open for you :)

  57. Alykat Says:

    I agree with topaz’ post…..I met your music almost 10 years ago, when i was at a dark place in my life, and nothing else could soothe me. While i
    respect and admire many other artists, none touch my heart or soul the way you’ve managed to do. So let those that want their ‘POP’ feel good music, have it….as you can see, we wouldnt want you any other way….So big ((((((((((hugz))))))) to you…..and thanks for everything!

    Aly
    ps..when can we sent our sase to Peter for the ep asap?

  58. rosenater Says:

    For what it’s worth

    If read or not, I am a fellow musician and songrwriter and emotion, depth, and enchanting chord progressions are it for me. I love to tune my guitar different ways and just see what I find, than I drop a vocal line over top and hopefully my chord progressions fit well together and have a simple complexity to catch and intrigue the listener. For me, I try and emulate what you do and have acheived. The way you compose music inspires me and gives me ideas and influence to create my own pieces. So anyway, I really respect you and what you do and how you write, that’s all I’ll say. Take care…look forward to the new CD and going to see you in concert again!

    Nate Rose
    www.naterosemusic.com

  59. derek Says:

    Duncan,

    I have loved and respected your music since the day I heard it. If you ever changed your ways to appease the masses, you’d lose all of the essence you’ve gathered thus far. I am such a picky listener when it comes down to finding a quality artist to listen to, because I am the type to listen to an album over and over and absorb and reflect on it. The content of your songs…. is so powerfully pushed by your melodies and lyrics in such a way that it is truly crafted from your heart, and your music is beautiful in everyway. I listen to your music in the way I listen to Jeff Buckley, David Poe, Radiohead…..it is a rare gem and it is what it is (although your live performances blow me away! Well the one at Stephen Talkhouse…more to come). I have listened to Daylight in the past…but at the time I really wasn’t receptive. That is a blessing because it is now like a new found album that I can’t stop playing (yup, you did it again). You have songs that words can’t described, I feel like I hear words in your melodies that just can’t be spoken because they would lose their grace…(it is hard for me to describe the effect of your melodies….because I am still under the influence of them)

    Your fan forever (however long forever is),

    Derek

  60. ecstasia Says:

    Duncan,
    Your post was very well said but I don’t believe that you should have to justify yourself or your decisions to anyone. I don’t love your music because it’s pop and because it’s “so totally awesome!!11oneone” I love your you music because it literally speaks to me. So many of the songs have strike chords in me and ring true. I always say that I can recognize a true DS fan by the songs they like. Yes, Barely Breathing and On a High are good songs. But they are not your best. I love Serena, Little Hands, House Full of Riches, Nichiren, Longing Town, Memento and Good Morning. Those are my most favorite. Those are the ones that I can play over and over and never tire of. There isn’t one song of yours that I hate or completely dislike. But those in my opinion are the best.

    I can’t wait to see you in September at the Casbah. I loved your performance at the Belly Up a couple years ago and if you play even half as well as that I won’t be let down at all. Can’t wait to hear the set. I’d love to hear Little Hands live though. It speaks volumes to me. But I’ll be happy with any songs you perform.

    Lissi

  61. MikeH Says:

    Duncan, as someone on here said it’s painful to think you have to explain yourself, you’re an amazing musician of depth and emotion. I was in attendance at your very first Bimbo’s show in SF way back in ‘96, wasn’t that one of the first shows you ever did?

    I much prefer your slow/moodier stuff over the pop stuff, and love the fact that you are a David Sylvian fan as am I.

    I will have to miss your upcoming Bimbo’s show as I’m seeing Dead Can Dance that night. Keep being who you are!

    MikeH

  62. ej3 Says:

    Your music and lyrics are so personal to me. They always move me. Sometimes I feel that you came inside my mind and heart and stole my thoughts. I am always anticipating your new music and would be extremely happy if every song that I hear at the upcoming Nashville show was one I had never heard before. The more “somber” the better! I love the B-sides I have heard, so far, especially “The Aftermath” (you’ve been inside my mind again) Don’t worry about whether it’s somber or upbeat, or what people think..just play what you feel like playing. See ya in Nashville!

  63. Jennifer Says:

    The brilliant post by wid…who hit the nail on the head.(how beautiful) He’s someone who just brought his teenager daughters to see Duncan and he expells amazing descriptive words of Duncan’s(and band) performance. What I love, is his comparrison of music to food! Duncan is absulately not fast food. He’s more old world…
    I apology for this is my 2nd post on this topic. I knew Duncan when we were kids and he’s still amazing. (and I’ve had two glasses of wine)

  64. acousticgroupie Says:

    simply put, keep doing what your doing. i think your fans know you don’t dig the pop stuff. i love that you don’t. i like that you explore.:)

  65. Vanessa Says:

    I wrote: “(this came through even when you and Gerry performed Nick Drake?s Phantom Moon at BAM), ”

    Of course, I meant “Pink Moon.” Good God, I need more sleep.

    Cheers.

  66. keyboardplaya Says:

    “Suffice to say I have never been stoned during a show since then and don?t plan on taking it up in the future.”

    Don’t you mean “toking” it up? I know, extremely corny. Anyway, everyone else on this board is right. Why should you care what other people want? YOUR music is supposed to reflect YOUR emotions.

  67. JanaGray05 Says:

    Hi Everyone,
    You have all put out what I would want to say to Duncan if he were standing here with me having a conversation. I say this to you all truthfully… and to you Duncan, Your music has pulled me out the worst depression I have ever experienced in my life. In this crazy world we live I find the most peace and beauty in your music. It surpasses anything I have in my whole music collection. I fight my depression everyday without the drugs and the “Dr-pop-em-pills” I have always gone back to your music. So Listen to what everyone here is telling you. We Love you just the way you are. I still hope you would pop down here (TX) some day soon!!!
    Jana

  68. oasissheik Says:

    I just listened to all of the Cornell show and love it very much. Now a question. What are the possibilities of we paying members getting the tabs to your songs on here? I would love to be able to cover some at shows.

  69. dakotagirl Says:

    Wow. The support from everyone is amazing. I’m so glad to be able to share in art and appreciation of your music with others. Keep on rockin in the free world.

  70. tdurlach Says:

    doesn’t like doing pop songs?

    christ -he plays two of the most overplayed pop covers - wonderwall and fake plastic trees.

    duncan, love you to death but i would rather hear your “non-pop orginal songs” then to sit through all these covers. don’t get me wrong - they sound great, but i came to see DS not a cover band.

    if memory serves we right, you have been playing that same radiohead cover since 97.

    we need some popular singer/songwriter to come out and freakin do DS covers of barely breathing, on a high, etc just to spite him.

    for someone that doesnt like doing “pop” songs you sure are pretty consistent with doing them on your albums - almost like you contradict yourself.

    i like both you pop and non-pop songs. in my opinion thats what keeps your albums so diverse.

  71. duncan Says:

    Well, therein lies the rub doesn’t it? You think I played too many covers, Mathias says I don’t play enough upbeat songs, someone else wishes I had a string section with me.

    My point was that when I stop worrying about pleasing all the people all the time (which is ontologically impossible) I am able to make music that is more “authentic”, for lack of a better word. And, frankly, I don’t care if it’s a pop song, a cover, or a minimalist interpretive dance, I can really only go on what we (the band) are prepared to play well and what moves me in that moment. So again, I’m sorry the set list wasn’t to your taste but one thing this whole discussion illustrates is that one man’s pop song is another man’s self-indulgent cinnabon fantasy.

    Cheers!
    DS

  72. brianj Says:

    As I read the response by tdurlach my first reaction was to feel defensive because it felt like he was attacking Duncan. While I appreciate the fact that every person is entitled to their opinion, there is still one thing we all have to remember, this is Duncan’s website and we should all respect him and his choices for his set lists.

    Duncan is right when he talks about not being able to please everyone. That would be a never ending task. Isn’t that what being an artist is all about, being able to express your talents not trying to please other people?

    The responses are all thought provoking but it does seem like if Duncan had to please everyone then he wouldn’t be true to himself. That is one reason why I enjoy his music so much. He does what he wants, not what someone else wants.

    Keep up the good work Duncan. I support you! :)

  73. SheikFreik Says:

    a request for tonight’s show:

    “minimalist interpretive dance”

  74. platinumbabe83 Says:

    First of all… I can’t believe I keep missing Duncan’s shows…(we Texan folk seem to be out of the loop).

    Secondly, I have never been dissatified with any song that Mr. Sheik has produced… never. I’m amazed by the talent that he has, the true appreciation for music, and his ability to understand in a way that I have seen very little in artists today.

    I can hardly way for White Limosine!!!!

    *mwuah*

    Much love for your artistry, Duncan.

  75. tdurlach Says:

    just to clarify..the setlist WAS to my taste. i was just wishing for more original songs as opposed to other artist’s songs-> doesn’t seem like a bad/outrageous request or a “Mathias” request/comment. quite honestly i would take that as a complement.

    for the record - you blew me away at the GR show. i thought you were spectacular. i did not mean to bring any disrespect to the forum and if i did, i am sorry. i think its GREAT that you have a blog and that you respond frequently.

    keep up the good work - cannot wait for the full length.

  76. lmahler Says:

    Total different topic but does anyone know the set list from Sellersville.
    I keep it as a memory of the show.
    Thanks Lisa

  77. startagain Says:

    duncan,
    the trouble with being someone who gives of themselves as you do, you end up reaping the whirlwind from those people who take and take, and still think you owe them something. to thine own self be true, duncan and if the followers still want to follow they will. thanks for inspiring me for a long time…
    hey-just spent a week in hilton head, sc…any favorite haunts down there?? i found peace there with my family…good stuff…

    bill

  78. platinumbabe83 Says:

    Sorry for all the typos in the last entry… “I can hardly way for White Limosine” should be “I can hardly WAIT”

    Also, I wanted to add that I’ve been a fan since the title album (one of the very first albums I ever bought… I’m a youngin’), and it’s a rarity to find the true Duncan fans in person (I think I know of two). You have such an imagination Duncan, and I cannot get enough of “Home”, “End of Outside”, “Forshadowing”, “That Says It All”, “Good Morning”, and “For You”… such romanticism…

    Got one question for you… back in grade school I was reading several novels that seemed to parallel with your songs… “Alibi” paired with “A Tale of Two Cities” by Dickens, and “The Wind That Blows” with “The Awakening” by Chopin… since you did “Wishful Thinking” for “Great Expectations” I was wondering if this was a coicindence, or a true connection…

    Again, much love… I’m so grateful to live in the same period of time as such a great artist…and I’m also grateful that you open up to your fans in such an intimate way… and, as with the other “true” fans, I trust your judgement and you haven’t led astray…

  79. stasis Says:

    Critics are dinghies in the wake of creative yachts.

    Just remember that Drake’s biggest song (posthumously of course) was pink moon -certainly not some upbeat Hazy Jane or Poor Boy.

    There can definitely be a balance between being completely happy and authentic in what you’re creating and finding the ears to fall on as well. And it seems like it comes best when it’s not forced, which I’m glad to hear seems like the path you’re taking.

  80. Sherrie Says:

    I personally would love to see a minimalist interpretive dance.

    That make me spit coffee all over my keyboard, by the way.

  81. duncandonut Says:

    I like what brianj said…this is Duncan’s site so seriously, show him some respect.

  82. Afterall Says:

    Before every show, Duncan should go around the room and have everyone fill out their desired setlist and play each one. Here is mine:

    1. A Body Goes Down
    2. Any mix of Wham! covers.

  83. Topaz Says:

    I’d like to know why some people always find a negative in any given situation. And why it is that if something’s not EXACTLY to their liking, or not exactly what they thought it would be, or should be…it’s not good enough. Why so many complaints?? Why the need to pick things apart to death. This goes for anything in life…Some people just always want MORE. They always want better. It’s never enough just as it is.

    Everyone has favorite songs from a set(or album or whatever), and least favorites from a set(or album or whatever). My favorite might not be your favorite. But instead of being bummed that you’re not hearing your favorite at the moment, why not just sit back(or stand) and simply soak in the beautiful music and appreciate the talent…find the positive in the whole experience? Take it for what it is.

    And I think some of us are missing the point of Duncan’s post here. He’s not saying mellow music is better…he’s not saying “pop” music, or upbeat music is better. He’s not saying anything is BETTER. He’s only saying that he plays what HE likes and what HE feels. And that’s what he’s supposed to do as an ARTIST. Otherwise, he wouldn’t be an artist. He would just be simply putting out “stuff” to try to please the people….entertaining them…Like a gazillion other musicians(if you can call them that..maybe entertainers is a better word) are doing right now.

    We can go along for the ride with the ARTIST and his musical expressions….or not. But we certainly shouldn’t complain. That’s just silly. To me, it’s all good and I’m with him 100%…fast songs, slow songs, sad songs, happy songs, covers…whatever. It’s all Duncan and it’s all good. :D

    And yes Duncan, I’d like to see you do some sort of minimalist interpretive dance as well. Or maybe a mime routine would be nice. I’d still be be behind you 100%. Although, I may be a little embarrassed for you… but still with you. Sorry, couldn’t resist…Joe started it.

    Laura

  84. Topaz Says:

    P.s. Radiohead’s “Fake Plastic Trees” is considered pop?? To whom? Since when?

  85. leveriza Says:

    Laura…lots of nice wisdom :-) and PLEASE for everyone else…no more complaints…have you noticed that DUNCAN has a full schedule…with the upcoming release of White Limo, the tour schedule, etc…TRY NOT TO STRESS HIM
    OUT…thoughts shared…let’s just wish him Good Concert Cheers at the Downtown tonight. BTW, If I miss that “minimalist interpretive dance” will be quite bummed. :-)

    Friday Cheers,
    Leveriza

  86. russelld Says:

    Duncan, you will never be able to please everyone. But you will be able to please almost all of us simply by playing. I think the fact that this thread has near 100 replies, almost all of which are your undying fans eagerly spouting our devotion and appreciation of you and your music (not that I thoroughly read anywhere close to all of them), proves that amply.

    The only thing I would like to see more of from you is shows heh You can play whatever you want and I will leave very happy, I promise you. You play such a long set, there is bound to be at least ONE song in there for everyone’s taste.

    Duncan, you totally rock.

    - Russell

  87. blackwuzzy Says:

    A Night of just Comedy. Forget the Music!!

  88. acosingr25 Says:

    Dude,

    Your show in Grand Rapids moved me like no other… it was the best show of yours I have seen- you seem happier, more at peace somehow. It was so obvious to me… there’s a different persona shining through, than what I have seen in shows past. Its more than your being comfortable on stage-there’s a deeper connection between you and your music. It shows, and it fucking rocked.

    You continually remain an inspiration to myself and my music.

    Drea

  89. laguirre Says:

    Hahahahaha!

    “one man?s pop song is another man?s self-indulgent cinnabon fantasy”

    Will never look a cinnabon rolls the same way again…..
    (plus “Cinnabon Fantasy” could be the title of a song?! ala “Savoy Ttruffle”)

    It seems that this “horse” has been well beaten…
    Let us leave poor Mathias alone, at the end his thorny opinions have turned out a garden of support and compliments (reafirmation). And no more apologies or justifications either, they are feeling quite uncomfortable now for it is clear that overall everyone is mostly “on the bus” as Ken Kasey would say.

    Plus,
    I dislike very much labels in music…. what is “pop” or whatever to someone is not to someone else…… never in my life I would have thought “Fake Plastic Trees” as a pop song….. Radiohead is a great band that produces intelligent and dare-I-say groud breaking music (and prefer them more than Coldplay actually). I actually love DS playing that song…

    And “Wonderwall”… yeah, this could bee seen as a “pop” song due to being overplayed in the radio, but I don’t think it is really pop either. It is not the “songs” fault, just ovezealous buck-making record/radio stations who played it non-stop to the point that many felt “over-feed” by it. I personally love the song and its lyrics, it is good songwriting…. I mean “because maybe, you’re gonna be the one that saves me, and after all, you’re my wonderwall”…… that is sweet….. who wouldn’t want to be somebody elses “wonderwall” ??

    Ha….. labels mislead….. wonderwall is a good song.

    I’m off now,

    Brevity is the soul of wit… (and I need to get me some of that!)

    Cheerio!

    -L.

  90. the_optimist Says:

    “a minimalist interpretive dance”

    -Um, is it bad that I hope you’re not joking about that one?

    Duncan- do what YOU want, because that’s all I’d want to hear.
    :),
    Sybil

  91. matthias2 Says:

    Dear Duncan,

    First, let me say I’m sorry that you had to read my 2 post-concert posts on sheikfreik.com. Had I ever thought you might read them, I would have either not written them or at least been much more sensitive in my phrasing.

    Second, as is common in email or blog posts my comments were mistook by some (as was your response as you stated above). Others were very kind and gave me the benefit of doubt. Thank you.

    To set the record straight and hopefully put it to rest, I AM a big fan of yours. Perhaps that’s why I was so passionate about the Ann Arbor show and the new E.P. It’s not that I was unhappy with the setlist. I did enjoy
    the show. I was just expressing on the fan forum my hope for some of your singles as well which are some of my favorites too.

    Wonderwall was fantastic and I could listen to any of your Radiohead covers everytime. No concert is ever gonna play all of your favorites or what you expect as a fan. Again, my post was intended to just discuss with other fans the setlist and the new E.P. Surely, it could have been better written.

    You make some great points in your post above. But you have to admit, to date your art has been very popular as well as successful - you have made some very powerful (and upbeat - there’s that word again) songs Barely Breathing, Wishful thinking, On a High, and Now and Never. Many have been in the movies and on TV shows, et cetera. And because of it’s popularity, you have a diverse audience. Some, like me, who like the Daylight AND the 1st CD just as much and want to hear pieces from each aspect of your career in concert. If you are moving into a new direction with White Limousine then good for you. I wish you much success in every endeavor. I’ll continue to find the places where we connect and I’ll continue to cherish them.

    But I want to challenge you to remember the fans who still love your pop stuff too. Remember us at concerts if not on the new records.

    Peace Duncan.

    Matthias

  92. jmyerson Says:

    i feel the need to chime in here for whatever it’s worth.

    it’s true, there is always that issue of being an artist and entertainer. i’ve never known duncan as an entertainer. he is an artist in the truest sense. he is enlightened as a person. he is perhaps the most balanced person i know. he is generous, kind, patient… he is a creative genius. he shares his gifts and talents with those willing to accept. it’s the most simple and beautiful concept and it’s a real shame when people just don’t see it.

    i’ve often found myself in recent years actually questioning myself as to certain steps i’ve taken in music, and as a person, after having considered so much of what duncan has accomplished. not just in music, but as a whole. it might sound stupid, but it’s that force which makes people inspired to listen, create… to change themselves and their environment.

    it goes completely past a gig. sure, it’s music and it’s fun. everyone is having a nice time and the band is rocking out… that’s part of the experience. but honestly, if all you want is entertainment then you’re not looking at the big picture as far as duncan is concerned. you’re also not looking at the big picture for everyone that understands what he’s about.

    i’d have no problem if duncan eventually turned his back on some of those pop songs and just continued to move forward on his quest for growth as a person and an artist. it’s the most powerful thing i’ve ever seen. it’s taken me years to try and grasp.

    we can be music fans, have fun and be entertained… the last thing i’ll ever do is ask - or worse - expect duncan to do anything less than move forward for his own good.

    sorry if this seems a bit harsh. it’s not meant to put anyone down. it’s just my perspective.

  93. blackwuzzy Says:

    Is that really Matthias writing?

    You know Matt…. we love the old and the new and everything in between.
    Hopefully you will find that common ground too.

    bw… “Thanks for writing.”

  94. LaLa Says:

    Duncan - was there a time that you ever really embraced Barely Breathing? It makes me a bit sad to think that is now categorized as just “pop” and perhaps something that you look back at and maybe wish you never did.

    To me, the lyrics of that song touched my very soul like no other song. They still do, even after all this time - and it has become an old friend. It was as if someone (who I had never heard before) wrote something while secretly spying on me. I mean, you NAILED what was in my heart and mind at that time in my life. That’s so very rare. You provided a voice for the oatmeal of emotion that had no form. I cried with your words, and listened intently until I knew every note, pause and syllable like the beating of my own heart. I connected to that song and the rest on the CD like no other in my life.

    I suppose that an artist moves on from the songs that may have launched them, as they have to play them ad nauseum, and most likely don’t feel anything at all behind the words they wrote. But please don’t ever feel that if you are asked to play the most widely aired songs it is because some fans can’t get beyond them and into your more recent, moodier (for lack of a better word) songs. It’s just that even the work you are ready to leave behind has moved some people beyond what you imagine. It’s not an insult - quite the opposite.

    This thread made me remember the croud you played to at an art gallery in Connecticut (only a few days before 9/11) who asked for an encore, and you said “You’ll have to write the songs, because I only have a couple of albums, and I think you have heard it all”. That has cracked me up ever since. Good for you to have so many more great songs since then, and with even more to come. I look forward to everyting you produce going forward.

    Laura2

  95. Topaz Says:

    p.p.s. I just want to say ONE more thing. I promise. :)

    I love Beck. He fulfills another side of me musically, and I think he’s an incredibly unique and talented musician who is also not afraid to be himself. And yes, “Sea Change” moves me….it’s SUCH a beautiful album. But his other stuff makes me MOVE! Which is a good thing sometimes too. Everyone MUST listen to “Midnite Vultures” at least once in their lifetime and do the freaky dance. It’s F-U-N.

    That is all.

    Laura

  96. deek_md Says:

    Brother Dunc -

    Just keep on keepin’ on. You are what you are and everyone loves you for that.

    We are all willing to grow with you.

    Cant wait to see you @ Coach House in San Juan Capistrano (I may actually wait to talk to you after the show with my wife).

  97. mr_roziner Says:

    Duncan,
    Well, I’ll add the 97th comment to this running commentary. I wasn’t at the show you are speaking of, but I am a huge fan and I’ve seen you a few times live. Anyway, the reason I listen to your music is simply because you do what’s in your heart, not what’s topping the charts. You’ll always have a loyal fan base for this very reason. Take care and don’t go changin’ :)

  98. Cranie Says:

    Duncan,
    I’ve been listening since the first album, where you were marketed as this hip kid with catchy music. Great album but I naturally gravitated to the darker songs. Since that time your albums have become deeper, apparently more personal, and you’re hip but we decided that without the machine :)
    The biggest thing to keep in mind is when an artist does things for themselves they will always hit resistance from fans and the label. However if an artist gives in then we wouldn’t have masterpieces like “What’s Going On” and “Days of Future Past” or ANYTHING from Nick Drake. So just do what you do and by being yourself we’ll get to hear music that’s different from the mainstream and totally original. Looking forward to you coming to MA in the near future.
    MG

  99. Tansy Says:

    Oh honey…
    True art (no matter the medium) is a reflection of what being human is- not a condensed, sugar added, bubble gum version of what we think our experience should be. That’s the appeal of art in the first place- to feel the brute of honesty.
    Duncan, your work has embodied this. It’s dissolved itself into a lot of people, awaking and influencing. For some, it may be more comfortable to stick with the lighter side.
    Luckily, that’s not the motivation behind what you do.

    So, thank you for being open. For allowing yourself to be seen as-is, by all of us. We love your music dearly, and you for making it.
    Don’t let anyone’s passing judgement affect the beauty you create.

    “Ring the bells that still ring.
    Forget your perfect offering.
    There is a crack in everything.
    That’s how the light gets in.”
    - L. Cohen

    Much love and a good hug,
    Susann

  100. KT Says:

    That’s why I love your music because it doesn’t sound like the “pop top 10 songs” they feed to the masses. Your music speaks of individualism and freedom. And the people who identify with your music, well they get it! We take a little piece of a song and say “I felt that way” you put it in the right words. Keep being yourself! don’t worry, the people who need to get it, will get! Peace & Love. KT

  101. jro1962 Says:

    Well, Mr. Sheik, my friend Jessica and I VERY much enjoyed your show. I’ve already listened to the EP several times. I haven’t been to a show in ages and your was great. It seems you go somewhere else when you’re singing and then come back to earth to see us all watching you. Thank you for a great show and looking forward to your new album.

    Jonathan

  102. Lesly Bauer Says:

    Interesting comment. There’s no question, it’s important to find your voice and to stay true to it I’m new to your music, and I have to say, I do like the slower, more lyical pieces — like those on Phantom Moon — more than the “upbeat” material, so I’m glad to hear this is the direction you are moving in. My wife and I were talking about going to see you in NY — if we do, we’ll try to say hi.

    I was curious and read Mathias’s comments on the other site — apart from the remarks about possible drug use, I didn’t find any of them to be offensive. Critical, yes, but then, music is very subjective. I gave Phantom Moon to a friend who said she found it a bit “poppie” and that it reminded her of Liam Titcombe! It totally blew me away. I kept wondering whether I slipped the wrong CD into the jewel case.

    Bottom line, we each have our own esthetic. What’s interesting is that Mathias’s touched a nerve with you. There’s obviously a lot of active self-examination going on with you right now, which is great, because it is so critical to the growth of the artist and the evolution of the voice. As per Socarates, “the unexamined life is not worth leading”.

    Best of luck and I’ll be listening.

    Lesly

  103. EtCeteraSam Says:

    Word. Thank you for being articulate/structured in what you have to say. I worked for a relatively popular artist once, and he/she could not string together a logical, grammatically correct sentence. He/she has a great vocabulary, but generally used it to spout faux-idealistic banter. Wow, sounds like I’m on Dawson’s Creek. I’ll hush.

    Panda watch!

  104. jbjfan38 Says:

    I thought the show was absolutely amazing, one of the best concerts I’ve ever been to. I also just found out you’ll be back in Detroit at the end of October and I couldn’t be more excited. Do your thang, love what you do and don’t care what other people think (and you obviously don’t) You can’t please everyone and if you tried you’d only end up dissappointed. Writing about what you feel is what makes your music so amazing and that’s what makes you such an amazing artist, different from most of what’s out there these days. And that’s awesome.

  105. drcarr Says:

    People don’t quite understand how I can like the band Tool to the degree that I do (greatest band ever, by the way), yet get so much out of your CD’s. This response you left in regards to that post sums it up. You hit the nail on the head as far as I’m concerned with the “Sea Change” to “Guero” example as well. I am not a fan of “Daylight” but so what. I can’t get enough of your other CD’s, that CD just missed the mark for me. To each their own, right? I don’t spite you for that album, it just doesn’t find its way into my CD player.
    Just to read your words reinforces what I have been telling people for years in regards to your music. Your music has that “thing”, whatever that “thing” is, when the music becomes a vehicle and just takes me somewhere. I know some of you know what I mean, and it sounds corny and all of that I know, but give me some Duncan Sheik on an Autumn afternoon and I’ll be a pig in the smelly stuff. I believe that has as much to do with a God-given talent and a unique sound, as I do with hard-work and a passion to bring something new to the table, so to speak.
    It is always so difficult to truly step away from ourselves and see ourselves as others do. And with that said, from one of the biggest Tool fans in the world today, your music is dynamic and inspirational, and works for me on so many levels. I have listened to your songs over and over and over again and they just don’t get old. They have that “thing”, and I truly appreciate your intent to refine that “thing”.
    Too many artists nowadays can’t step away from their material enough to realize that what they are bringing to the table is “bruised and borrowed” (mark the time, a Tool reference has emerged), or they just don’t care to take the time to do so. And though musicians are surely influenced by the music that inspires them, there is a difference between the artist that takes the time to hone their own sound with nuances of what they enjoy sprinkled along the way, to regurgitating someone else’s sounds and thoughts.

    I can’t wait to go see you tonight at the Birchmere, in VA. I have wanted to see you live for nearly a decade and I finally have my chance. I am taking my wife out on the town and she is almost as excited as I am to see you live. I hope you have a great show as much for you as for me. I am usually content to keep these kind of thoughts to myself because it is difficult to express this kind of sentiment without other things getting in the way, especially when I ramble as much as I do, but I guess this is my one attempt at telling you how much I love your work.

    “that says it all”

    respectfully
    Zachary C.

  106. Leela Says:

    Life is short and it should be sweeten with what makes people happy. People are mirrors anyway.

    Fourteen days later-
    Leela

  107. Zaphod Says:

    I’d have to agree on this one. Music is probably one of the most emotional things for myself and others. Some people can’t stand music that makes them wonder about their fears. Some people can’t “sad” songs or things that take them to dark places. I’m cool with that, but music is a form of expression like poetry and art. Life is about strife and turmoil as much as it is about joy and happiness. Maybe people look for music to be that “safe” space where they can get away and leave the troubles of life. But there are just as many people out there that want to connect to an artist and want to feel that someone else out there is going through the same things they are. I’m glad you’re staying true to yourself, especially if it’s driving you to do more. Your music, as well as many others, has helped me through rough times and been there for good times too. You just do what you have to do. Somebody won’t like it, and somebody will. As long as you can show people what you truly want to do, nothing else matters.

  108. astralchanteuse Says:

    As sychronicity would have it, I’m in Asheville, NC, and see that you’re playing here Sept. 3. My father is in the hospital, had surgery, is in ICU and not doing well. I looked in a paper the other day, and “lo and behold”, you’re playing here. I felt like I had to justify to my family my desire to see your show during this difficult time. I said, “Duncan Sheik is spiritual music for me… music that helps me through adversity.”

    Duncan don’t cater to masses. If you do what is true for you, you will have much more to give. That’s how I live my life. Hope we can converse at the show tomorrow.

    Dawn

  109. chelsearenee143 Says:

    duncan,
    it moves me that you create your music for you. that is what is so inspirational about it. by listening to your songs, i feel that i am being allowed inside of your soul for just those few minutes, and it is beautiful. i think what appeals to me most about your stuff is that you can’t always find it on the radio. its like my own little secret that i get to be selfish about and keep to myself.
    you are truly a beautiful man.

  110. :) Says:

    I couldn’t read this whole response but from the beginning and the fact that it’s a response to a thread made by some dude out there just made me think to myself: IT’S NOT THAT SEEEEEHRIOUS!*

    * in a Jamaican accent, of course.

  111. Litterbit Says:

    Wow, how profound, and right on I might add. Personally I feel music is a powerful media. It evokes emotion, hence the soundtrack =)

    The tone can make you feel fearful, happy or shed tears. You don’t alway have to like it, but it is always there.

    I’ve always been a great fan of music acoustic and lyrical, even if I don’t always like how it makes me feel. I love it all the same. Life should have a soundtrack, and so far I’d say Duncan pretty much hits the nail on the head as far as I’m concerned. It’s not always pretty.

    TTFN,

    Elizabeth

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